How do the stories we’re told about ourselves become the truths we live by? Across five essays, childhood assumptions give way to broken baselines, deception, and the difficult work of recognizing what was never normal. A journey through the damage that stays with us, the truths that finally break through, and the stubborn determination to rebuild.
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Part 1: The Weight of Assumptions: Words as Weapons
Assumptions can shape who we believe we are — from childhood bullying to adult relationships. A reflection on how lived experience breaks the cycle.
August 18, 2025
Part 2: The Danger of Inexperience: Broken Baselines and False Narratives
In Part 2 of The Berbly Project, Kimberly Thomas explores the danger of inexperience — how broken baselines and false narratives shaped friendships, young love, and marriage until lived experience revealed the truth.
August 18, 2025
Part 3: The Danger of Deception: Lies, Silence, and Surviving a Prison of False Love
Part 3 of The Berbly Project: The Danger of Deception: Lies, Silence, and Surviving a Prison of False Love. Kimberly shares her lived experience of gaslighting, abuse, and survival — and how she began to reclaim her voice.
August 18, 2025
Part 4: The Ruin, The Reckoning: From Ashes to Strength
Part 4 of The Berbly Project explores life after the breaking point. Kimberly shares the messy, uneven process of sitting with grief, rebuilding through writing and ultrarunning, redefining boundaries, and reclaiming self-worth as the foundation for freedom.
August 19, 2025
Part 5: A Love Letter to Endurance: Lessons in Salt, Stingers, and Survival
In Part 5 of The Berbly Project, Kimberly Thomas closes the circle of survival — from nights of grief to miles of endurance, from ruin to reckoning to rise. A visceral reflection on pain, grit, and awakening in the ashes.
August 24, 2025